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In our relationships, we have to learn how to Inspire each other.  Everyone needs their significant other to be a constant motivator and inspiration to achieve goals personally and professionally.  We have to support and inspire one another to be our best selves.  We live in a world today, where society has so many platforms to try to tear us down, so instead of tearing each other down, build each other up.

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Be mindful of the words you speak to your mate.  Be mindful of how you treat your mate.  Be mindful of how you support and inspire your mate.  You should be your mates biggest cheerleader and biggest supporter.  We have to learn to work together with our mate towards common goals, instead of working against each other or discouraging each other, because of our own mental limitations.

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If you do not inspire your mate and do not support your mate, shame on you.  By support, I don't mean financially, I mean by showing up and being a constant presence in your mates life when they need a helping hand to either promote products and services or sell products and services (if they have a business), if they are in school and need help with school work, when they are struggling through life journey's, need support with the children, or to help him/her conduct business better, meet business needs successfully, or just need you there with him/her.  

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You can inspire each other by saying encouraging words to your mate, when he/she might have a bad day or a bad experience.  Just letting your mate know that you have their back, is also inspiring.  One of the worst feelings in the world, is thinking that your mate has your back and when you fall, he/she is not there to catch you to make sure that you don't hit the ground.  If the latter happens, you can easily lose trust and confidence in your mate.

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There are several ways that you can inspire your mate.  Some ways that you can inspire your mate are:

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-Be encouraging, but also realistic about goal achievement.
 

-Remember, your mate's goals, might not be your goals, but they should be a benefit to the relationship, so help when needed.

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-With words of inspiration, Inspire your mate to continue to grow through trials.

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-Set attainable goals together and work towards them together.

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-Be presently there to support your mate, when he/she needs you.

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-When challenges occur, don't discourage your mate with words of defeat, instead, encourage your mate to stay solution focused. 

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-Don't tear down, build up.

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-Let him/her know that you want to support them by asking, What can I do to help you?  What do you need from me?  
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-Be an inspiration and a part of the solution, not the problem.  

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Inspiration allows us to look beyond what we think is possible and transcend our mind to new possibilities.  When a mate inspires us, it shows us that our mate loves us, supports us, and cares about our well-being.  What do you do to inspire your mate?  He/she needs to know that you care about what is important to him/her.  He/she needs to know that your relationship is not only about what matters to you.  Be a part of what makes the relationship work.  Don't hesitate to inspire him/her, although they might not tell you, they need it.  Be inspired and be inspiring.  Inspire.

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By Lynnette Clement

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