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Sometimes, the person that you are in a relationship with looks to you for inspiration.  Facing life challenges is not easy, which is why it is important to encourage and inspire your mate by letting him/her know that better days are coming, and that what he/she is going through is temporary.  Sometimes, you are the only bright light in a dark sky that they get to see.  Your support, encouragement, and inspiration are important.

Supporting and inspiring your mate is not always about financial provision.  It is about being a listening ear, and a word of encouragement, and inspiration to help get through another day.   Your words matter.  Your love matter.  Your support matter.  Your inspiration matter.  Your trust matter.  Your patience matter.  Your wisdom matter.  Your kindness matter.  Your compassion matter.  Your thoughtfulness matter.  Your honesty matter.  Your caring matters. Your time matter.  Your encouragement matter.

Be mindful of how you treat your mate. Your mate needs you, more than you may know. So, as you spend time with your mate, be there for him/her when they need you.  Approach him/her with grace and appreciation. Be their light in the dark world. Be their peace.  Speak life into him/her, not death.  Be their better half, don't tear him/her in half. Don't discourage your mate, instead, encourage your mate...be their Inspiration.

By Lynnette Clement