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In couple relationships, you and your mate are partners.  Partners in the aspects of conducting a business and personal relationship with one another.  This partnership will require each of you to consider what is beneficial for all parties involved.  It will require you to think about someone other than yourself.  As a partner, you compliment each other, and have each others best interest at heart.

In relationships, what works for some people, does not always work for everyone.  Therefore, you have to work within your partnership to determine what works best for the both of you, as a couple. 

Partners discuss short-term and long-term goals with each other, and strategize on a plan to achieve the goals discussed.  They work together to implement the plan.  They help each other achieve business goals, as well as help each other achieve personal goals.  They are not in competition with one another, and they do not "hate" on each other.  They also do not take advantage of each other.  They are happy and supportive of one another.  All of these characteristics are examples of a good partner. 

If your partner does not include you in their plans for their life, it could be because he/she does not have long-term plans for you to be in his/her life.  If you are not working together to achieve future goals, you are working against each other.  It is true that you can do more with help, than you can do on your own. So, in your relationship, don't just coexist with each other, form a partnership.  Become partners with your mate.

Life is not always easy, and doing everything alone, can be hard.  It is better to find that special someone in life who will become your partner in life, in love, in business, and in a relationship, so that the two of you can get through life, together.  I pray you find your partner, if you haven't already found him/her.

By Lynnette Clement